We think we are important. That is a delusion.
We should do what we can without expecting that people will remember what we have done for them.
You try hard to be kind to people. You have too much concern about other people's practice. You will not be at peace if you go on doing that.
"Giving others the freedom to be stupid is one of the most important and hardest steps to take in spiritual progress". (Sayadaw U Jotika)